I’m in the same boat and definitely recommend getting a pop socket. I used one on my last phone too (little hands). I ordered the magnetic socket but didn’t realize my new case doesn’t have a magnet in it so now I’m looking for a case that does. Make sure you get a case with a magnet not just one that says MagSafe compatible. I thought the same about the weight but that resolved itself and doesn’t bother me at all anymore.