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mitch8893 t1_itqgtf3 wrote

i'm with it but the social ability in these ipad kids is seriously lacking

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wenchslapper t1_itqifqr wrote

There’s a massive difference between the games that stimulate reflex coordination and response times. 90% of the games we throw on iPads do NOT do this. Furthermore, we need to keep in mind that over saturation of any sort of stimulation is going to have adverse side effects. One of the most prevalent side effects in these “ipad kids,” as you call them, is a high dependency on the device to supply their dopamine, which causes a form of addiction to the device.

So, at the end of the day, what kids need is proper parenting alongside all these new reports. But most people have kids for the image and not the experience, so they resort to lazy ways to find the topography of behavior they wish to see, with zero foresight for the damage it causes. Oh, billy is throwing a tantrum at the restaurant? Stick a screen in his face instead of helping him work through his human emotions. I.E. bottle it up and save the problem for another day. But what happens when it’s too late?

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mitch8893 t1_itqqtq8 wrote

Correct. Games are fine but a reliance to any technology is bad. Kid's should always spend time playing outside, communicating, trying new things etc. I feel like a lot of parents resort to tossing their kids a device

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mitch8893 t1_itvxncw wrote

Let's not act like being in front of screens and social media for hours a day doesn't affect us all. I'm glad I at least got through my teenage years before it all started coming about

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