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Sininenn t1_j0ibp02 wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in Child abuse in the U.S. - victims by perpetrator relationship 2020 by Not_that_wire

That does not make abuse permissible.

Oh and just an fyi, I had both parents in my life, the worst physical abuse was by my mother.

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Wizard_Tendies t1_j0ixqhl wrote

They didn’t excuse abuse, they provided potential insight on why there is disproportionate abuse from mothers reported.

Which might make sense when accounting for single parent households. If women, more than not, gain primary custody of children then we should expect higher rates of mothers that abuse their children. Again, it doesn’t excuse abuse. I don’t know where people got this idea.

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mytunacan t1_j0iy22a wrote

Strange how people get all defensive just because someone attempts to interpret the data.

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Wizard_Tendies t1_j0iyxmr wrote

My hypothesis; this is an article with information that might be used against women. Please allow me to specify; the issue here isn’t just child abuse, but who commits it. Without knowing who or why, it’ll be hard to remedy. However, anyone disingenuous will take this and say “look, another example of fathers and men being disenfranchised!” and that is absolutely not the case.

Anyone to try to understand further or disagree with the disingenuous will be called “abuse excusers” because it helps create the inner dichotomy of “us and them.” Aka basic primate brain shit doing basic primate brain shit.

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Sininenn t1_j0j04hv wrote

I will repeat myself. If that was the case, single mother households would have to outnumber dual parent homes, which is not the case.

It's funny you mention "primate brain shit". Look up "Women are wonderful effect". That is some "primate brain shit", which is exactly what people trying to explain higher abuse by women through simple numerical majority are doing.

As if women could not be shitty, abusive and violent human beings, even more than people think men are... But that would shatter their preconceptions about the big bad violent man and the soft beautiful innocent powerless woman.

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