AA_Ed t1_j83xhgo wrote
Reply to comment by kintsugionmymind in From Swiping to Sexting: The Enduring Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships - The Survey Center on American Life by TrixoftheTrade
It's almost as if you stopped reading the article at that point and didn't keep scrolling to physical features. Literally says that height matters more to women than men.
kintsugionmymind t1_j83zgg3 wrote
It's almost the case, but it's not. I read the whole thing. Clicked There are dozens of differentiators, with gender differences across nearly all of them. So yes, women tend to prefer taller partners and men tend to prefer shorter.
But when women were asked to talk about what they meant by "expectations" height wasn't highlighted. Nor was wealth, nor any of that bullshit. Again, because I guess you didn't get it before, and because we're being condescending to each other:
Women more than men report having a greater number of potential deal breakers when it comes to dating. They are also more likely to report having difficulty finding someone who meets their expectations. But for many young women, dating expectations refer less to a laundry list of must-have qualities and more to basic standards of how they wish to be treated.[8]
It's not about height, or fitness, or symmetry, or money. Or maybe it is, if you're a shitty person with nothing else to offer. If you listen to what women are saying, it's that they want to be treated to a higher standard of respect. That's the lack of measuring up that matters, not being 6ft+
AA_Ed t1_j84aknp wrote
Well if a deal breaker on a first date is "must be taller than me" which it seems like for 56% of women it is than there is a whole population of men who aren't even getting the opportunity to be shitty people.
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