I have both and if I had to chose one it'd be the Xbox for all stuff on my account over the years, game pass, backwards compatibility, quick resume. The Ps5 controller is fantastic, I think I currently like the feel of it more than the Xbox controller but the rumble features are kind of gimmicky. If you do go for a ps5 and end up not liking it you can easily re sell it and make all your money back to get a new Xbox and you'll still have all your stuff waiting for you. Also PlayStation plus premium would help get you started for games, not a bad alternative to game pass imo