Submitted by Certain_Scene_2359 t3_10gnp68 in boston

It’s been a week today since I lost my airpods at a planet fitness gym. The manager of the gym said they wont show me the camera footage because I have filed a police complaint and they will only show it to the police if they ask for it.

I asked the manager to search their database by address for users who came to the gym at that hour on that day when I lost my AirPods. The manager refused. It seems like she doesn’t want to help me at all. Very bad person.

Will the police actually take interest in helping me find the AirPods? A week without my airpods has beeen tough. I know the address of the person who has my airpods. I visited the location but its an apartment complex that has many apartment units. So, i didnt enter there. Now I see that my AirPods’ battery has drained and they don’t update their location on my app.

I’m a bit lost here, anyone who has experience with this kind of situation and knows how I can get my airpods back? Thanks

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jojenns t1_j53t48d wrote

The manager at the gym is correct not giving you member addresses or camera footage. All of their members you included have a right to privacy. Go to the police and they may stress may be able to help

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willzyx01 t1_j53wrpc wrote

This has to be a shitpost. No way this shit is real

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candidcamerapeepshow t1_j53xmdi wrote

Think about the cost benefit/opportunity cost of pursuing this. Sometimes in life you’ve got to eat the loss and simply move on.

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OilSelect t1_j54q4mt wrote

You lost your AirPods. Yes, some loser then took them but the initial act is on you. Sorry. Truth hurts. Stop placing the blame on the manager and buy new AirPods

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Syncope7 t1_j54r00u wrote

Just take this as $100 lost and a lesson learned. The police don’t care.

“A week without my AirPods has been tough”. -Maybe this will be good for you, then. You sound like you live a padded life.

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HoneydewOk1731 t1_j54umnp wrote

I’m still using wired headphones son. My life isn’t any tougher for it

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OrangeLoco t1_j54vc7h wrote

Tell the police the address they were pinging from and then ask the police to ask the gym which members live at that addy.

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wobwobwob42 t1_j54x9vq wrote

I apologize the SWAT team wasn't available to bust down the door of the perp.

I think Dog the Bounty Hunter is still active, give him a shout.

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Certain_Scene_2359 OP t1_j54xom9 wrote

Yeah but I have filed a police complaint too. Very unlikely I could be lying. And honestly, if the manager was interested in knowing who has stolen my airpods, she would have probably gone thru the database. They have camera footage too, what good is it when you don’t even use it

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bostonguy2004 t1_j54ytwr wrote

Lol not sure if this post is real. Anyway, in the U.S., the police typically don't investigate or try to solve small-scale theft like this, such as thefts under $1,000.

If you see how many stolen bike posts there are on this Sub and how few are solved by police, you'll know what I mean.

But Protip: If you have Renter's or Homeowner's Insurance you can likely file a theft claim and get your money back to buy new AirPods!

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wookie768 t1_j557m06 wrote

I think this is a real post, looking at his post history. Student at north eastern from India.

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DooDooBrownz t1_j5583d7 wrote

you should hire a team of private investigators and really get to the bottom of this thing! maybe do a stake out outside the apartment building and look for people that look like they might be going to the gym and stop each one to see if they have your earbuds.

im kiddng. you lost your shitty earbuds. get over it you idiot.

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avsavsavs t1_j558f0w wrote

haha the only hope u have is that hopefully you'll let this go, lick ur wounds and move on.

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bostonchef72296 t1_j55912a wrote

I lost my passport on the 66 bus with an airpod connected to it, they were in the MBTA building, and then a worker or someone else stole it. police did not give a single fuck. Why would they care about a pair of AirPods if they didn’t care about someone stealing a piece of identification like that? I just reported it stolen and am getting a new passport 🤷🏼‍♂️

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bostonchef72296 t1_j559b8g wrote

If you had renters insurance unless you paid for a low deductible plan it wouldn’t have been worth your time. I pay for a low deductible, high value plan just in case I get robbed or something. But a lot of plans have a $500 deductible. And a lot of terms and conditions.

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thegalwayseoige t1_j55auhr wrote

The police don’t care about your AirPods. The manager probably cared for a second, but the way you handled it, most likely annoyed them to the point that they have no interest in helping you find them. A private company isn’t going to expose the personal information of its clients to another private citizen; that’s a massive liability issue. Doing so would leave them open to being sued. You pressing the issue, and making ridiculous requests that most people would understand aren’t reasonable, is only compounding the issue.

Had you dealt with this differently, the manager probably would have reviewed the video. If they found anything, they’d most likely have worked with you on filing the police report. All you’ve done by approaching things as aggressively as you have, is convince the manager to not act proactively or cooperate with you. If they provided confirmation along with evidence of a particular suspect as part of your effort to file a report, the police would follow through.

Right now, your report’s details mean the police have to investigate to obtain evidence—it’s incomplete, in that sense. Those are man-hours that don’t always yield results, and not worth the cost of doing so for the item in question—especially because it’s not clear that a crime even occurred, or if you lost the item. If your report included confirmation that reliable evidence existed that:

1). a crime occurred

2). the suspect has been identified

3). who to contact to retrieve said evidence

then they’d have Probable Cause (minimum requirement to make an arrest) *and *a suspect. Because Felony Larceny starts at a value of greater or equal to $250, they’d definitely get your item back, and make an arrest. That manager was the one person you shouldn’t have alienated—corporations have strict rules regarding communication with law enforcement in these situations, which means it’s a headache for her to help you. She had to WANT to help you, to not mind going through that.

And to be honest, she was right to not share anything with you. You said you saw an address, AND WENT TO THE LOCATION. Thank God you didn’t have the apartment number. That’s the exact kind of thing she was trying to prevent—that business doesn’t want to be responsible for the possible outcome of someone making such an idiotic decision, and she doesn’t want to lose her job.

If losing something that, by design, is easy to lose bothers you this much…maybe you shouldn’t own it in the first place. They’re just AirPods, guy. Life gets way harder.

TL; DR

Knowing what information police need to see in a police report for smaller crimes, can greatly increase the chances they follow through. If you collect evidence to reach the minimum threshold for an arrest and include that information when you file, you’ve removed the financial demotivation for them to act, by eliminating investigative costs. If you need the help of others to make that happen, be tactful and act with intent when discussing their cooperation. Make requests, not demands.

And for chrissakes, don’t go looking for suspected criminals at their homes without the police involved.

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rossboss711 t1_j55c6tb wrote

Leads? Yeah, I’ll just check with the boys down at the crime lab. They got 4 more detectives working on the case. They got us working in shifts!

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Patient_Estimate3284 t1_j55hxab wrote

I’ll take a red line wait time bitching post over this nonsense any day… please.

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Clamgravy t1_j55iu1s wrote

I'm impressed you've made it a week without your airpods. Have you tried prayer? Maybe the right prayer will bring them back...

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Illustrious-Nose3100 t1_j55lien wrote

Sorry OP. Probably going to have to take an L on this one. I was involved in a car accident awhile ago ($10k plus in damages), police came to the scene and took everyone’s info. The party responsible for the crash has gone MIA ever since so neither I nor my insurance company was able to get a cent from them. There’s zero chance they’ll take interest in your AirPods…

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R_Morley t1_j55m0k0 wrote

You should buy new airpods. The police have bigger fish to fry.

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zoomonayamaha t1_j55n1tp wrote

Uhhhh did you file a police complaint against them before you asked for their help? Not sure where you got the idea that you have the right to get that information from the gym. Did someone steal them from you? Or did you misplace them? Big difference. And no, I doubt the police will help you retrieve your lost airpods.

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Certain_Scene_2359 OP t1_j55n9ep wrote

Hm.. thank you for taking the time to write this down. It was a ridiculous request on my part for sure. I missed mentioning this before in the post but the manager did go thru the video but the cameras are at an angle and she seees me putting the airpods down but when I pick up stuff from the treadmill, she can’t tell if I picked the airpods or not.

I would not want the person to face the harsh consequences for doing what they did. I wouldn’t want to press charges, even if I could.

And, it does bother me in a healthy way. I might be going a bit far but yea, my friends and my brother have been helping too and they accompanied me to the persons address too.

But you’re right, i will follow up with the police once, if they entertain my request, then great, otherwise I’ll halt my investigations lol

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Illustrious-Nose3100 t1_j55o9rt wrote

Nah. I just paid my deductible and went on with life. I’m sure I could have but I have a pretty low deductible so it’s whatever.

Edit: since the insurance company wasn’t able to track them down, the claim went to collections

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Drix22 t1_j55tbht wrote

I had my car broken into and various items stolen when I was in college.

There were fingerprints where the window broke, some blood on the door from a cut, a camera facing my car from the store I parked in front of.

Nobody fucking cared about my car. This is the world we live in, it's just property, make a homeowners claim or replace them.

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Proof-Variation7005 t1_j55u1qj wrote

I think you should hire a private detective, someone who isn’t bound by the limits of a cop working within the system. Like a John Shaft

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PresentScientist4278 t1_j55unil wrote

You need to call Channel 5, get ‘Team 5 Investigates’ on the case

I had a ~$2000 bike stolen off the street locked up. I filed a report just to cover my ass, even though it was obvious that the cops couldn’t have given less of a shit about it. I ended up tracking it down on FB marketplace and took the bike back myself. But I don’t feel like a pair of AirPods are worth even worrying about—just get another pair, maybe some cheap knockoffs this time.

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psychicsword t1_j55x20s wrote

>The manager of the gym said they wont show me the camera footage because I have filed a police complaint and they will only show it to the police if they ask for it.

I would be pissed if they allowed some nobody to watch camera footage of the gym.

>I asked the manager to search their database by address for users who came to the gym at that hour on that day when I lost my AirPods. The manager refused. It seems like she doesn’t want to help me at all. Very bad person.

I would be even more pissed if they revealed my PII to some random claiming they lost something.

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APIASlabs t1_j55xmqd wrote

LOL. You're not getting them back. Nobody cares about shit like this, at all. This would be a complete waste of time and resources if anyone did anything, which they can't.

"A week without my airpods has been tough", are you kidding?

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Boston1_ t1_j55zz6w wrote

Gym thefts are so unbelievably common. With the shortage of cops only getting worse, don’t expect anything to actually happen. Sucks it happened.

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Megsmik8 t1_j568i00 wrote

The police are not going to investigate your $250 or less airpods. You have find my iPhone for that. It's your personal responsibility to take care of your own stuff. It's definitely not some part of a bigger thing. No one is stealing airpods with your dirty earwax and re-selling them. If they're newer airpods then they have the ability to be seen where their battery went dead. If they are older than the newest ones, you are talking $50-100 resale value.

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wallet535 t1_j568vb2 wrote

OP, I agree with everyone else posting here, but just FYI something very similar happened to me…someone mistakenly took my jacket instead of their own from a bar, and so they accidentally took my AirPods home with them. I also could see their address, which was also in a big apartment building. I had confidence that it was a drunken mistake and that the person would return my jacket to the bar, which they did a few days later. I had reported it to the bar, so they knew to call me, and I went and got my jacket and AirPods. Just wanted to give you a positive story.

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tulips49 t1_j56as9b wrote

You’re not getting them back. There is absolutely 0% chance the police intervene. And, the gym was right not to give you member data or show you the video footage.

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Max_Demian t1_j56bz8l wrote

Look OP, you're clearly a bit out of touch for a number of reason (thinking the police would do anything, posting it on reddit, etc). But here's some practical advice: do NOT show up at someone's residence over petty theft. That's just asking for trouble. There are lots of wireless buds that are much cheaper than airpods, you'll be fine.

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zoomonayamaha t1_j56ee7c wrote

Good luck! I think your best bet would be to try and get them back from whoever found them. Maybe leave a note at the apartment building, just make sure not to accuse someone of stealing them, or they won't want to return them obviously. Something nice, maybe a reward for finding them?

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justUseAnSvm t1_j56kumr wrote

Yea, you let it go.

First, you figure out how this happened, like what mistake you made that let something you care about so much out of your sight for so long. Did you trust a locker, did you not check your pockets, et cetera, then don’t make this mistake again.

Shit happens, but you are safe and your property is replaceable. Here’s a secret about thieving if you didn’t know: it’s a crime of opportunity. Button your shit down and it won’t happen to you.

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AboyNamedBort t1_j56kv5h wrote

>Leads? Yeah, I’ll just check with the boys down at the crime lab. They got 4 more detectives working on the case. They got us working in shifts!

Since it's a Planet Fitness why didn't the gym manager sound the Lunk Alarm and frisk everyone to see who had the earphones?!?

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TheTr7nity t1_j56qvlg wrote

In a day where police departments are so short staffed and overloaded with work, you think they will stop all they are working on to focus on finding your AirPods!? It’s really that important to you, go hire a private detective to locate it for you. The cheapest alternative might be to chalk this up in the L column and buy some new ones.

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Shelby-Stylo t1_j56rk1c wrote

The Find My app doesn’t work? A couple of weeks ago, my Ipad and Airpods starting sending messages to my phone if I even left them in my car.

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camlaw63 t1_j56s6z6 wrote

Go back to the gym at the same time, see if your device pairs with them, them blow up the volume

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HebrewHammer14 t1_j56s8sz wrote

This isn’t even worthy of its own Reddit thread let alone police assistance for lost (not even stolen) AirPods

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Altruistic-Room2168 t1_j56tavc wrote

>The manager refused. It seems like she doesn’t want to help me at all. Very bad person.

No. She is a good person. She doesn't want to violate the privacy of all of her valuable clients all because you lost something. The reality is that you don't know if it's a theft, any variety of things could have happened accidentally by someone. Someone could have picked them up in error thinking they were theirs and now they've ditched them in the stairwell of an apartment complex. Move on, the world does not revolve around you.

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Zealousideal_Web8496 t1_j56yita wrote

Did you lose them or were they stolen? Your comments are not consistent and the difference is very important.

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Dangerous_Drummer769 t1_j573j7x wrote

Is it even stolen if you left it behind and someone went over and picked it up?

This is a HoF post. Love that it is serious.

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thetoxicballer t1_j57bj9b wrote

Jesus christ guy, eat makes you think they would give you their customers addresses?

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mtmsm t1_j57bju0 wrote

Tip for the future: Get yourself a renters insurance policy. It’s $10-$15 a month. It would cover a theft like this, as well as other property damage, liability, and living expenses if your apartment becomes uninhabitable.

And watch/lock up your valuables at the gym.

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Kissmygrit t1_j57k2fi wrote

Boston cops will not do anything. Guaranteed.

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meltyourtv t1_j57oy3m wrote

Bruh I got hit & run in my BMW while I was inside a store and ran up $2300 of damage and they refused to show me the cameras without police so I called the cops and they refused to pursue it even tho it was $2300 and there was surveillance footage. Take the L, they won’t do shit

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Status_Alarm t1_j57p8tc wrote

You sound super privileged, sounds like this person needed them. You should be ashamed

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WickedAngelLove t1_j586s10 wrote

You probably should have talked to the manager at the gym first before filing the police report. Did you lose them or do you think they were stolen from you? Either way, it's been a week and now they are dead. You may as well get a new pair because even if the police take the address and go, the person will probably say they don't have them and they aren't going to arrest them over some airpods. Just suck it up and get a new pair and be careful

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joearchang t1_j58d035 wrote

I would make a “lost AirPods sign” and put it up on the door at the apartment. See if someone feels guilt or gets scared and “ returns the lost item to the gym Worth a shot.

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Maineamainea t1_j58fl55 wrote

The cops can’t pursue this without a search warrant and they aren’t going to get one because in the grand schemes of things this is stupid and your expectation of people is stupid.

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You-Only-YOLO_Once t1_j58fqba wrote

Prolly try to make a bat signal and light it up. Batman loves solving this kind of stuff

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Maineamainea t1_j58frt5 wrote

Let us know when you find them at the bottom of your bag

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lindslindslindsss t1_j59zrll wrote

That manager isn’t a bad person, he’s just not going to cross a line and impede on other clients privacy because YOU lost your AirPods. You made a mistake and now you have to deal with the consequences. This is no one’s fault but your own,… no fingers to point except at yourself here. SMH, your post screams immaturity. You lost your AirPods, get a new pair or get over it.

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ElleWoodsPinkShoes t1_j5a101v wrote

Lololololol the manager is a very bad person for not giving OP the address of each person who went to the gym the day their AirPods were stolen? Is this even real? You’re not entitled to personal information of each person that went somewhere the day your shit was stolen. I want to feel bad that your AirPods were stolen but when you’re acting like you’re entitled to the personal information of anyone who happened to be there that day you make it hard to feel bad for you. I’m sure your attitude isn’t making anything better with the police. Buy some new AirPods and move on. Keep better track of your shit next time.

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Aside_No t1_j5a2s8r wrote

Seriously? You lost your airpods and someone grabbed them. It's not like they broke into your house or car or something. The cops won't bother with this and they SHOULDN'T. You learned a valuable lesson about not leaving your expensive items behind

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Aside_No t1_j5a39k7 wrote

The cops don't know what apartment they're in either. Do you really expect them to knock on every door? Do you expect the person who had them is going to admit it and give them back? Do you think any judge would issue a search warrant over this? Take a step back and think this through, i understand it's frustrating but you're trying to use thousands of dollars of city resources to recover your LOST property

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joeschmo28 t1_j5a50zq wrote

Did you try dusting for fingerprints?

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value321 t1_j5ab9go wrote

>I asked the manager to search their database by address for users who came to the gym at that hour on that day when I lost my AirPods. The manager refused. It seems like she doesn’t want to help me at all. Very bad person.

You need think to about the privacy of users. Do you really expect the gym manager to do this because somebody just says they lost something? How does she even know that you are telling the truth?

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BillG2330 t1_j5bkoni wrote

Buy a pair of $7.99 wired earbuds at CVS. They can get stolen (lol)/lost/short out 20 times and you've still spent less replacing them than what you'll spend on new Airpods.

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clairegardner23 t1_j5bwrwm wrote

The manager can’t give you names/addresses of other members at the gym. That’s a violation of privacy and they’re definitely not allowed to do that.

It sucks you lost your AirPods but you need to let this one go and just buy a new pair.

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Electronicist t1_j5c6pvp wrote

“AppleCare+ for Headphones does not cover lost or stolen AirPods”

I wish you were right about the 90 bucks to get new ones if stolen because that would be dope, but I don’t see it anywhere. Just 30 bucks for apple care and 30 bucks to get them replaced from accidental damage

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Saffa_1990 t1_j5cjqf3 wrote

Dude, you’ve got to be kidding. This is a joke, right???

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DawctorDawgs t1_j5cpwz8 wrote

“Hello police, My negligence resulted in the loss of a couple hundred dollar item that is my own private property.”

“Oh okay sir, let us spend THOUSANDS of dollars worth of time and energy and manpower and the opportunity cost of solving more important crimes in a BIG CITY to help you retrieve an item that you left behind.”

Read that? Does that sound right to you?

It’s hardly worth the police’s time to pick up the paper to file this report. Maybe if you were in one of the richest zip codes in the country and had a couple friends who said they also had airpods stolen in that location then the cops would help. Otherwise, understand that your low value private property is not a good way to spend public resources’ time in retrieving. Sorry, but that’s reality.

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innerstate77 t1_j5cwpoa wrote

An office I worked in had 8 laptops stolen. The thief broke a password on one and ordered a bunch of physical gift cards for restaurants through our company Amazon account. He entered his real name and mailing address. Oh, and we had security cam footage of his face.

So, thousands in company property stolen, thousands more on gift cards, the face, name and address of the thief made available. Police did nothing. Nothing at all. We got no computers back.

So, good luck with your AirPods but they are gone. Be more careful in the future.

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wlutz83 t1_j5d2oyl wrote

cops are rude, insecure, trite, dishonest and belligerent, and they are an organized, government sanctioned gang of people who wield power to kill and punish unethically and without consequence.

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ThaiManLA t1_j5d45mx wrote

Damn, are you joking? You must live in your own bubble

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TokkiJK t1_j5do8pr wrote

The second I lost my AirPods, I tracked them on my phone. You can track AirPods and you get them to make a really loud noise.

I found them my baby cousin’s toy box. They fell in there when I was cleaning up her toys.

But I guess you have to do it as soon as you notice so the battery doesn’t run out?

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Electronicist t1_j5dvgp8 wrote

Went ahead and did what? I went though the steps and im not seeing why you think it’s 89 for a whole new set. If Apple did that you could pay 89 bucks for a new set, and sell your old and make money. It’s $89 per item (L/R AirPod pro, or case). And $69 for regular AirPods

“You can replace a single AirPod (left or right AirPod) or a Charging Case for a fee. Use our “Get an Estimate” tool to review potential costs if you get service directly from Apple.” - it is per item…

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Arisyd1751244 t1_j5fbg74 wrote

The manager is correct for not giving you access to video and confidential info about members. It could mean serious trouble for the company and violates its customers. What if they gave someone your address and phone number because they claimed that you stole from them?

It sucks that you lost something of value but you need to accept that they are gone and be more careful in the future. The police definitely don’t care about someone losing their AirPods.

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SpokenTruuth t1_j5jpnam wrote

yeah i've had cops drag their feet on stolen CAR so lets be honest, your earphones arent going to get much traction lmao. I did have a friend lose their iPhone and manage to get a nice cop to go to their house... when they knocked on the door the person said "i dont have it" and that was the end of it. It's not like they can go searching the house without a warrant (there's no judge that'll sign a warrant for that).

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Bigger fish to fry, sorry about your loss.

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kitenubber t1_j5lk3aw wrote

you know what i would do? go up to the police station where you filed the report, tell them you know where the airpods are and that you request police escort. this happened to me when someone stole my phone once and they were there just as an escort but when the thief saw the cops with me they gave it back instantly.

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