Somerville, Cambridge, and JP have much more queer spaces imo than Boston Proper. No exclusively queer spaces but a much higher concentration of queer people. My suggestions would be Bow Market in Union Square in Somerville, specifically Rebel Rebel wine bar. (It’s queer woman owned) they also have a sister restaurant Dear Annie between Harvard and Porter. Davis square also has a few bars/spaces that have queer events (Goblin Hole etc). There are also queer based comedy shows around the city.