Just wear it out wherever. My friends and I used to have a monthly tuxedo outing, and just go to random dive bars and restaurants. Black tie events typically are boring. Wearing a tuxedo to a dive bar, especially with a group of 10 people in tuxedos, is awesome. We always had fake back stories (charity events, book release party, canceled wedding etc). It was a great time. I got engaged one night because of the tuxedo. Never saw that lady again. Haha.