Boston is falling to shambles. You explained my feeling perfectly. I see people say they sweat on their way to work and are rugged because they can bike in the snow or whatever, but there is no infrastructure for this. As for the T, it is much more reliable for me to Uber or drive. I see my coworkers being able to get up at the last minute and then I have to get up at an ungodly hour to make the only bus in my neighborhood in the morning. PT and bike riding is made for a certain person. Even NY is worse. I talked to one person who told me they were crossing the street and the cars didnt even stop.