R/romancebooks is a very welcoming subreddit that likes to make recs for pretty much anything and is pretty good about including potential triggers. And if you look up past threads (or post a new one if its been awhile) about favorite subgenres within romance, it may help you kind of find your niche in the very large Romancelandia...like, if you want historical novels set in Ancient Greece that are light on spice, I'm prettt sure they'd be able to recommend a dozen. And if you list your favorites, I'm pretty sure they'd be able to say, "oh, obviously, you're a fan of comedic shapeshifter motorcycle romances, here are a bunch of others you'll like."