nim_opet t1_itk1bcm wrote
Reply to comment by Sacred_Root in The way people speak in The Count of Monte Cristo. Can someone explain? by foxdna
What does non-binary have to do with distinction between singular and plural “you”?
Sacred_Root t1_itk1l5g wrote
That's one of their reasonings for the non binary pronouns.
nim_opet t1_itk5fzw wrote
No it isn’t. Gendered pronouns have nothing to do with 2nd person plural one.
Sacred_Root t1_itkkc1m wrote
You misunderstood what I was saying and i have no invested interest in trying to explain it to you. Idgaf about the topic enough to care either way.
Sacred_Root t1_itk1sd3 wrote
Identifying by they/them instead of he or she.
nim_opet t1_itk5ixt wrote
None of that has anything to do with the polite version of “you”. Those are genders of third person personal pronouns. The “tu/vous” distinction is specifically about the 2nd person pronoun and how it changes in singular vs. plural. 2nd person pronoun is not gendered.
Sacred_Root t1_itm02ae wrote
We're not talking about the same thing.
Sacred_Root t1_itm0kjp wrote
I never said it did.
Sacred_Root t1_itkjrkj wrote
Tell them that. Not me. You misunderstood what I was saying, anyway.
Nice_Sun_7018 t1_itl66a0 wrote
I guess we all misunderstood you then lol. “They/them” is in use because English doesn’t have a gender-neutral singular pronoun. If we did, we would use it. Since we don’t, we use the plural gender-neutral term (and we have always done this when the gender of the singular subject is unknown, too, not just for non-binary people).
This, as others have tried to tell you, has nothing to do with a language having a formal versus non-formal word for “you” (which typically comes in both singular and plural forms).
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