Submitted by BwanaAzungu t3_11yu39h in books
BwanaAzungu OP t1_jd9hfnv wrote
Reply to comment by LexiiConn in Do you give books to people? by BwanaAzungu
I like to give something with some personal touch, so I usually don't go for gift cards. In particular the more generic ones; at that point, just give the money (but I'm cynical like that).
As for books, tho:
I once went to a birthday party of an enthousiastic reader. He's comfortable with his own taste in books too, and doesn't like to veer outside of it. He likes books, it's a well-known fact about him; most people know what his favourite authors are.
So inevitably, when one of his favourite authors published a new book, he got five copies as a birthday present from five different people. (Edit: of which he had to keep one copy, and return four. So he had to choose which copy to keep and potentially offend someone, and ask the others politely for a receipt of a gift they thought was thoughtful)
I just gave him a book voucher. A book everyone knows you want, you'll get from everyone. I rather give something so you can get the book I don't know you want.
LexiiConn t1_jd9irto wrote
I know what you mean about “personal touch”. I’ve been lucky that, lately, many of the gifts I bought were for weddings and baby births, and the recipients had registries. Whew, I was so glad to see them!
BwanaAzungu OP t1_jd9kbey wrote
I used to feel greedy when making a wish list, but now I consider it common courtesy
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