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Killbot_Wants_Hug t1_j7d41ch wrote

Meetups are what I did. Don't worry if there are a lot of people going, people tend to break into smaller groups to hold conversations.

Don't do the local r4r, it's just people who want to bang. Actually that's why I don't really try to make male friends off reddit any more. Too many "hey, I'm totally straight too, you seem really cool, maybe we can hang out, if the vibe is good we could try sucking each other's dicks to see what that's like" bullshit messages.

If you're a drinker, the city has a ton of social events that involve the bar scene.

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trickery809 t1_j7d7bl0 wrote

Oh nice, girls get that too. A lotttt of “totally straight” females on bumble friends, just without the sucking dick part.

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ryann_flood OP t1_j7dazij wrote

Thanks. I'll keep check meetup to see if anything interesting comes up I'll give one of the events a shot and see how it goes. Yea the bumble thing felt very odd to me

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Killbot_Wants_Hug t1_j7fscla wrote

Try joining the Charm City Social Club. It's one of the bigger groups and has events fairly often.

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