We ask these questions because humans are one of the very few animal species that has to learn all of their basic survival skills from the previous generations. It’s a problem because our heads are than our body at birth in order to actually fit through the pelvis to be birthed, and they have to grow as we age. The hard coding of our brain to do the things we need to just aren’t there, but as an added side effect, it does give us more individuality and the ability to grow our intellect more so than any other animal