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madhatmatt2 t1_j083bwi wrote

I absolutely agree with you on that sj has a way of doing that to kids. The other thing I noticed is that a lot of kids hate it when they are there but are glad they went when they get older.

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CoolAbdul t1_j0864h6 wrote

YMMV. I got a very good education, both bookwise - good - and in the ways of people - bad. The school has one standard for the favored kids and another for the other kids. It has always been this way and continues to this day. And there are several schools with equal academic rigor that don't have the poisonous SJ culture.

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[deleted] t1_j0kckol wrote

"The school has one standard for the favored kids and another for the other kids."

Holy shit, SO true. This may just be me, but I always found it toxic as hell how they frequently awarded and lifted up a small handful of kids who excelled.

Like, my class was hundreds but always had the same couple dozen kids getting stupid amounts of attention. For lack of better word, it felt extremely neglectful of the rest of us.

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Unable-Bison-272 t1_j0arf0a wrote

Kind of a decent life lesson. People will treat you better if they like you.

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CoolAbdul t1_j0b4ru1 wrote

People will treat you better if your parents are wealthy donors.

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[deleted] t1_j0kcsoa wrote

Man, I remember some sports teams in my years had captains that weren't even damn starters. Guess how many had millionaire families? ALL of them.

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