I lived here for 30 years, and rents have sky rocketed. But I believe you can make it there are many places that are affordable in your situation. Share a rental, buy a travel trailer,motorhome, and rent a space. There are nice rv parks in the area. Lakeside rv isn't bad You can rent in everett and commute to Lynnwood in everett places can be affordable when available my kid rents a place 1/1 gated community 2 parking spaces for $1500 my brother rented a place only 300 sq ft lol but it is under $1000