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cld1984 t1_jbajopw wrote

My God this is disgusting.

We have a 5 year old little girl. My wife became chronically ill about a year after she gave birth. Turns out it was probably the pregnancy that caused it. It’s ruined her life. She can’t work and gets fatigued very easily. Obviously more kids are off the table.

I never wanted kids until I found out she was pregnant. Even then it took some time for me to warm to it. Now I can’t imagine a day without her. I want more but making them is not an option. Adoption would be our only recourse.

I’ve always heard about how difficult, time consuming, and expensive adoption can be, but then you see stories like this. How does this sick fuck get entrusted with the lives of, not just children, but the most vulnerable children who need stable guidance from a normal adult. Not someone using it to build a damn harem. Disgusting

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Elle-Elle t1_jbdl41o wrote

I'm curious - Did she get Graves Disease or something similar? If not, you don't have to tell me what. I'm just curious if my hunch was right.

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cld1984 t1_jbe7itt wrote

No problem!

She actually has Craniocervical Instability (brain stem compression from loose/weak ligaments in the neck). She also has Ehlers-Danlos which is the likely culprit, with the pregnancy being the trigger.

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Elle-Elle t1_jbehsab wrote

Ugh that sucks so much. I'm so sorry! Please let her know that this internet stranger sends her so so so much love.

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cld1984 t1_jbficky wrote

I will definitely do that. Thank you, friend. 🙂

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