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Maybe I'm negative but never propose or ask out or marry on popular days.

Because if it fails, you'll always remember that failed relationship every year.

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And you have the same anniversary as like a few million other people. Getting married or popping the question on V-Day is definitely cliché.

I mean, I’m still happy for them, but I wouldn’t do it personally.

My wife and I spend it on August 23. The first day we met in school

Edit: we hated each other for years

To be totally fair, statistically speaking, no matter what day you pick- you’re sharing it with a few million people.

I was going to have a courthouse wedding because of Covid but my state doesn’t do them so we got married in a park :(

Statistically yes but the humps win big on holidays

That's when my mom and dad got married! It was also my dad's birthday.

A park is so much more nice. You can visit each year on your anniversary.

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Or if your spouse dies.

Hey that's the day before my birthday! Neat!

Why is that a bad thing? Wouldn't you rather get married in a more pleasant environment?

Because it isn’t what we wanted?

Okay. To each their own.