In a world where a cohesive family structure is advantageous it would not be favorable to have the female hate you. Raising a child until it is an adult and able to reproduce is the goal in evolution (simple over statement). Creating a baby that is going to be dependent on the mother for many years, where the mother might have negative associations and potentially negative feelings towards the child will not give said child a competitive advantage vs. Peers. At least this is how I see it.