This applies to me so badly I'm a little embarrassed.

Years ago, when I was going through a nasty break up, I had asked a girl out as sort of a rebound date. I knew she was into me for years and I decided to give her a shot because I was lonely and wanting something to help take my mind off the breakup.

I don't remember everything from the date as it's been well over 10 years since, but I remember it going a little less than great. I picked her up, we went out for lunch, did bowling, and then I took her back home. I didn't feel an attraction so there wasn't a second date. And her dad said I got fat since he saw me in high school and that rubbed me the wrong way so I didn't speak to her for a while.

Well a while caught up to me and about last year she's in my life again for one reason or another. The topic of us gets brought up and her perspective of what happened was vastly different from what I remember.

According to her I said I never found her attractive and I went out with her out of pity.

Wow. I was such a complete asshole. I didn't remember saying that at all and I profusely apologized and explained that it wasn't okay of 19 year old me to say that regardless of what I was going through.

We don't talk still