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MrMing-NaWen t1_iuhqizx wrote

I dunno, based on this I'm with you. It sounds like you were being light hearted at a light hearted event. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone so ungracious and judgemental that they hold a weird, seething, grudge for a year over a joke about something I didnt know was sentimental to them. People need to chill out.

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Large_Talons_ t1_iuhxzxk wrote

I mean we (and OP apparently) have no idea what he actually said. and I know it’s just a hat but if someone you don’t know says something super rude the first time you meet, it’s gonna leave a bad taste.

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spanther96 t1_iuhzxbz wrote

“that’s an ugly fucking hat, whose wardrobe you get that from - your dad’s? muahahaha”

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MrMing-NaWen t1_iujsn9t wrote

Yeah, I mean we're only hearing OP's side. If in real life the guy said "hey this was my dad's, it means something to me," and OP pressed on anyway then I would get the grudge. Or maybe if he said something really, really, out of pocket like you mentioned.

But I mean, as with all internet stories, there's no way of knowing.

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BertieTheBrain t1_iuhyo1b wrote

Well you're only hearing one side of the story. It could very well he was being a drunk ass at an event since he himself admitted he was drinking and tried to use that as a defense of his shitty actions.

He said the dude "whined" to make the dude sound bad. He insulted the guy's dead father and then said he was whining about it.

He said he "apologized", I very much doubt it was sincere since he doesn't even remember nor really care what he did with the way he described it.

I wouldn't want to be friends with this guy.

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Patchyug t1_iui2sdr wrote

"We don't have the other side of the story so, after completely fabricating it based on assumptions, I have determined OP is a bad guy"

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BertieTheBrain t1_iui48ry wrote

nah, more like presumptions than assumptions. i checked some of his posts just now. he says the other guy either ignores him now or is just ignorant. describing how the dude behaves around him now and throws in an insult for added benefit. he sounds real apologetic. (that was sarcasm)

again, i wouldn't want to be friends with him.

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Patchyug t1_iui7bb0 wrote

"I am genuinely miserable and tearing this random dude on reddit down over miniscule amounts of evidence is how I am going to get through the day"

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BertieTheBrain t1_iui7ncj wrote

sounds like projection to me, especially with all your replies being sarcastic quotes. but whatever, you do you, king. have a good one 👍

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