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Roryh93 t1_ja3tpwc wrote

I don't understand that whole concept, wanting to be better or stronger then everyone else just sounds exhausting and mentally draining! Just mind your own business and be yourself! 🤦‍♂️

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Warwick86 t1_ja3wuab wrote

Depends on how you look at it. There’s the stereotypical gym rat alpha. Or you got the person who will stand up and do the right thing, Big difference .

You’ll have some one who will protect a stranger and another who will pretended like they didn’t see any thing .

It’s how you handle your self in situations. Size and toughness rarely comes into play.

I help run a maker space . A lot of others in charge are push over. They are afraid of calling people out and holding others accountable. I’m 5’11 180 not a big guy. If there is a issue with a member breaking rules I’m the one who they ask to deal with it . I’ve had psycho’s screaming at me about how they did nothing wrong and I calmly put them in place . Joking members refer to me as the enforcer since I simply don’t care

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