Submitted by rhodyjourno t3_zobqzk in RhodeIsland
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Sleuthiestofsleuths t1_j0m9c4j wrote
I read the article and it's both heartbreaking and infuriating. Do you know if there's a specific reason they are staying in Rhode Island? I ask because western Mass, for example, is significantly cheaper, and since the mom can work remotely, it seems like a worthwhile consideration.
allhailthehale t1_j0mkhd2 wrote
Is Western Mass cheaper? It has never seemed cheaper to me, but I haven't looked into it that closely.
In any case, it can be quite expensive to move away from friends and family. You go from having a built in network of people who can watch the kids, give you a ride when your car breaks down, etc to having no one around to call.
Mountain_Bill5743 t1_j0qfzzf wrote
I would not hedge your bets on Western, MA. I have heard that even central MA is costing a fortune these days and so when Amherst is unaffordable, everyone who can't afford to live in Amherst for their jobs will be cramming into the remaining 1 hour of the state to commute. Then, you're moving into the territory of Albany where, you guessed it, costs are exploding.
This family is homeless which means it will take them several years to get on their feet (especially with a relocation) and sending them to western MA would just be buying them enough time to get priced out again. This story is necessary to highlight the exploding inequality in this state.
Sleuthiestofsleuths t1_j0mmaql wrote
Yes, it's cheaper, and I used western Mass as an example. There are many places more affordable than here. It's very expensive to be poor in Rhode Island. I understand the fear of leaving the small safety net they seem to have, but in the big picture if they can establish stability somewhere else, they won't be as reliant on others for help. They've spent a staggering amount of money on hotels in just six months and could literally buy a house or mobile home in some places with the same amount. The Mom has a remote job waiting for her, with insurance, so they have that as an advantage. Is there a Go Fundme or any opportunity to offer help to them?
allhailthehale t1_j0mog96 wrote
Right now:
-no one will rent to them not because they don't have rent money, but because their credit is poor and there's four kids
-they've been able to fall back on living with a cousin, presumably to avoid living in a car
-a coworker is driving dad to work everyday so he can keep his job
I'm not sure how moving to Ohio or something would lend more stability to their lives. Dad would also almost certainly be paid less. Seems like wishful thinking. I grew up in a very cheap part of the country-- rent is cheap, but you need a car to get anywhere and there's very few social services.
Sleuthiestofsleuths t1_j0mskjb wrote
The problem they've fallen victim to is that RI (and the northeast, in general) had an affordable housing crisis. That's not going to change anytime soon. Logically, relocating to some place with a lower cost of living and no housing crisis, would benefit them. Jackson, Michigan, as an example. You can literally buy a whole house for under $100k, and it's a city of 30k+ people, with job opportunities and support services like food pantries, head start, housing programs, etc. My point is, it's very expensive to live in RI under the best of circumstances, and these people shouldn't have to struggle like they are. There are better opportunities for them.
climb-high t1_j0prrth wrote
Do you know how expensive and time consuming it is to move? How many extra resources go into the process?
rhodyjourno OP t1_j0nt19b wrote
Some of your have messaged me, asking how you can help the family. They just started a GoFundMe. You can find that here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/a-family-get-back-to-normal
mydrivec t1_j0ssyz8 wrote
Donated, I wish them all the best.
Real_Default_User t1_j0m1ts4 wrote
Paywalled
rhodyjourno OP t1_j0m1xfh wrote
‘Tis. However, I worked on this story for months along with my photographer. I think it’s worth it.
Leather-Monk-6587 t1_j0pcl70 wrote
Did you and your photographer get paid salaries?
bluehat9 t1_j0ugktd wrote
How do you think their salaries get paid?
Mutabilitie t1_j0nzjyl wrote
Based on reading the article, my understanding is they made $80,000 combined between the 2 of them.
With no judgement implied, I would say that objectively 2 people with that income and 0 children could do very ok if they're healthy. However, that income and 4 kids is nowhere near enough. I'm sorry, and again no judgement implied. Just objectively. This is not a judgement on what anyone should or should not have done.
And I think it's hard here in RI to make more than that without an advanced degree or technical knowledge. The struggle is real.
SharpCookie232 t1_j0o8kp1 wrote
The fact that pay hasn't kept pace with inflation (or grown much at all) is a disgrace. This country treats people - working class and middle class- like crap.
sniperhare t1_j10r2q8 wrote
People keep voting to keep the system in place, or to make it worse.
Mountain_Bill5743 t1_j0oe3qf wrote
There are plenty of people who live below or at this income in Providence or Woonsocket and presumably bought before 2020. I know plenty of people who bought a house in the low-to-mid 200s on one (reasonable) income in areas like Cranston and Warwick as recently as 2020 and plenty who did FHA where they needed very little money down.
It's easy to look at things now and cast blame, but the kids look pretty old from the thumbnail and I doubt the family figured they'd ever be in this position back then since it's not like they lived in a notably HCOL state.
StunningConfusion t1_j0ps8wc wrote
This is heartbreaking. No family should have to be put in these situations.
Do we know what kind of assistance programs they have applied for or used? Have they been provided with housing resources?
edthesmokebeard t1_j0sbxsg wrote
The Boston Globe never passes up a chance to shit on Rhode Island.
leavingthecold t1_j0uv9gw wrote
This story is sad and really sucks to hear but we will probably be seeing more and more stories like this. I read majority of the article but one section that boggled my mind was the part in which the landlord gave them legal notice to move but they didn't and were evicted. I know they couldn't find a place and hence why they stayed past the notice then got evicted but did they not realize what an eviction on your record can do to you as a potential renter even if you meet or exceed all the requirements.
Emotional-Simple-478 t1_j0mhp04 wrote
Not paying to read an article.
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rhodyjourno OP t1_j0ly1km wrote
Overview: With two working parents, $80,000 a year in income, four kids, and a stable home in Rhode Island, the Strong family was living the American dream. Then they were evicted. And the nightmare began.
After months of reporting, I respectfully ask that you please give this a story a read.