Submitted by CanadianDeathMetal t3_zm8pnb in RhodeIsland
citrus_mystic t1_j0c606a wrote
Reply to comment by User0098237490 in Are there any stores in RI that sell Christmas flags? by CanadianDeathMetal
Some people don’t like ordering things online.
Regardless, you don’t have to be condescending or question someone’s intelligence for asking a question.
User0098237490 t1_j0c7ma1 wrote
Once again, some people don’t like ordering online but will spend hours out of their day calling and traveling to stores from the top to bottom of the state to get a Christmas flag?
Sounds pretty justified to me.
citrus_mystic t1_j0c8vo0 wrote
You’re really trying to justify being a dick because someone is doing something you wouldn’t? Odd thing to double down on. It’s pretty easy to just accept that other people have their own preferences. Why continue to criticize?
User0098237490 t1_j0cau7c wrote
I’m not being a dick. All I’m doing is pointing out some pretty obvious stuff here.
Notice how no one ever said I was wrong, they just said I was a dick which is like a classic grade-school tactic when no one has anything else left to say to contradict the point.
citrus_mystic t1_j0cbnuq wrote
You know, it’s possible to make a recommendation without being condescending and questioning their intelligence.
Edit- because when you do so, you’re being a dick.
User0098237490 t1_j0cc54a wrote
I’d rather be a dickhead who’s right than a nice person who’s wrong.
citrus_mystic t1_j0cdq82 wrote
Or you can be kind and right and avoid being a dick entirely. It’s really not difficult. You’re fixation on being ‘right’ is entirely subjective in regards to a matter of personal preference, and you’re clinging to that argument in order to justify being rude.
I’m going to leave this discussion now. If you feel motivated to further try to argue why you feel inclined or justified in being unkind, go right ahead, but I’m not going to continue to engage.
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