Contact their local Area Agency on Aging. A caseworker will do an assessment and help them get the services they qualify for. My grandma’s caseworker had her set up with home delivered meals, a free emergency call button and Rx delivery within a week of her intake.

Here is the info for their county

Also these workers are trained to work with stubborn old people. They were very kind and helpful and gently talked my grandma into the emergency necklace that she thought she didn’t need but has used 6 times in the past few months.