My sister has a lake house in lake Ariel and I know there are lots of communities in the whole poconos area so perhaps if you’re on fb you could find one near your parents and see if anyone needs part time work? Im glad all your family will be pitching in that will be helpful. And i get the stubborness thing my dad is in his mid 60s and already on the stubborn kick. The loss of independence is hard. You can maybe say your friend sold u the freezer at a good rate?