wutangjan t1_jae4rwo wrote on February 28, 2023 at 7:56 PM

Reply to comment by ls743 in How do i tell the lead singer of my band that they aren’t that good? by MiniFestSam

The band is the bands band. Not OPs, or the leads, or mine or yours. That's why the band votes.

That said, the vessel that carries a band is the music and if I was in a band that wanted to kick me out and keep my music, playing it as their own, I would not go softly into the night.

ls743 t1_jaedtj2 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:54 PM

I don’t get the impression that’s what OP is trying to do, but okay. I also wasn’t trying to say the band belonged to OP, just that the front man joined after OP was already a member of said band. I assumed the “captain” you were referring to was the front man, implying it was his band that he started. Sorry if I misunderstood