I think Portland is exactly what you're looking for. There is plenty going on in Portland. The music scene here is pretty good. There are adult rec leagues that are great fun and a great way to meet younger active folks. We have a good bar scene.

Drive 1 hour north, and you have great fishing, hunting, hiking activities. About 2 hours north and your in ski country.

Obviously, we sit right on the ocean, so you will be very close to some great beaches and coastal state parks.

Portland is unique in that it has a city vibe with a small town feel. The arts thrive here, along with being one of the top "foodie" destinations in the US.

You will love it. Like any place, it's all in what you make of it that will determine your experience here.