randompersons90 t1_j9z9rrd wrote
Reply to comment by zvii in LPT: Don't look at your clock when waking up during the night to increase your quality of sleep. It's a lot easier to fall back asleep when you don't keep track of the sleeping time you still have left. by migudude
Oh wow, dude, I tried just letting my anxiety go and it totally worked! Fuck I should have tried this earlier, all these wasted years!
MK41144 t1_ja1alwi wrote
Like when people say "Don't worry." Ohhhhhhhh, DON'T worry, wow! Never thought of that!
zvii t1_ja3l9mf wrote
As much as you may disagree, it really can be that simple though. Hopefully you can get to better sleep, best of luck.
zvii t1_ja3l4gb wrote
I only mean the anxiety of "am I going to get enough sleep tonight." But it really is that simple, stop caring and just let your body sleep. Or not. And if not, take the rest as good enough. Works wonders if you don't care how much sleep you get and just go to bed when you're tired and get up when you wake up.
I used to be the worst sleeper until I finally just said fuck it. Now I sleep like a baby, my head hits the pillow and I'm OUT 99% of the time. Still have those nights where I feel like I was up all night, but the next day I feel absolutely no different. Once I let go of caring about it and worrying about the next day, the entire problem disappeared.
randompersons90 t1_ja4s5kv wrote
For me it's less about AM I going to get enough sleep. Its more " I need to wake up to do -important thing- is that soon? And important thing isn't going to go away for at least another 20 years
StoneTemplePilates t1_j9zhce8 wrote
Lol, that pretty much is how it works, though. Not that it's quick or easy, not at all, but consciously and consistently making a decision to let go of the things that cause you anxiety is literally one of the best ways to train your brain to work differently beyond medication.
mbtenor t1_ja0b8fq wrote
He was being sarcastic.
StoneTemplePilates t1_ja18136 wrote
Obviously.
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