Talk to her about end of the day chires that you can do to make up for it. If she likes the trash too go out before bed, or a quick vacuum of high traffic areas, mop around eating/cooking areas, doing final check of locked doors before bed, walking pet before bed etc.

Good on you for wanting to be a partner and searching out solutions for a problem before it becomes a fight. My husband wont lift a finger to do a damn thing without me begging him for days to do it. Then he likes to yell about how im always nagging him. So yeah. Dont be him.