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emo_rat119 OP t1_j6edfzh wrote

Reply to comment by CTDKZOO in LPT Request: understanding pronoun change by emo_rat119

That’s all I want. I tried to ask about itlast time we hung out, and they instantly seemed so anxious and gave me such short simple yes or no replies, and didn’t try to expand on anything I asked or they answered. I just… I don’t know how to start that without making them feeling like they’re just being questioned.

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CTDKZOO t1_j6evhbe wrote

It sounds like you are a wonderful and caring friend!

But you missed the chance to listen. If they didn't expand when you asked, that's what you need to hear. Let go of worrying about the past until they open up on their own.

Instead just be present with them as the good friend you are

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