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WindowMoon OP t1_j5rr01a wrote

Reply to comment by MinnieShoof in LPT never delete voicemails of loved ones, especially on holidays. by WindowMoon

eh there’s no way right to grieve. telling someone they need to let go isn’t what’s best for every single person. i can hold on to what’s important to me for as long as i’d like. sorry for your loss.

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MinnieShoof t1_j5rs94z wrote

We all grieve in different ways at different times but there are fundamental archetypes that play out pretty regularly. Acceptance is usually the final one. People don’t often get there while retaining active triggers. You’re right tho - it’s not for everyone. But it’s a thought.

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WindowMoon OP t1_j5rshl2 wrote

i can accept death while having a voice mail of my mom singing happy birthday downloaded on my computer. don’t you dare tell me i can’t.

sorry but you’re trying to dictate how i deal with my feelings without any context and it’s gross. let me do what i want, and you can have your opinion but don’t double down when i tell you no. 👋

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