[deleted] OP t1_j4jit4y wrote
Reply to comment by jinsen333 in LPT Request: How to ensure that a person doesn't use my personal belongings while staying at my place? by [deleted]
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drveni_advokat t1_j4kjtag wrote
>'m going to order and pay for pizza so he doesn't have to use my fridge.
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Wtf.
This does not sound normal to me. If you have that big concerns about this person, you should not let him stay in your place at all.
-kilix- t1_j4ksiak wrote
exactly. Either OP is unhealthily attached to his fridge or OP's guest is satan or something.
universalrifle t1_j4l2hfz wrote
There has to be something really freaky in the fridge, OP watches too much Dahmer
ramblingamblinamblin t1_j4lm00o wrote
Yeah - this story was all routine unyil the "twisted unhygenic habits" came into play. You are clearly not comfortable having this person in your space, and you clearly have a valid reason for feeling that way. Your family, members and friends don't have any business pressuring you about this because it's not their refrigerator that's gonna get messed with… This person can wait at the airport, wait at Walmart… Go to the mall… Whatever… This is not your problem if you are not comfortable, then having this person in your space, causing you a lot of worry and stress, and this should not be happening.
WenaChoro t1_j4ln8ip wrote
the story was weird from the start, it was a dumb question to begin with
ThinkingBroad t1_j4lmrua wrote
Pay for a motel room for a day
FoxInLilac t1_j4lsiwd wrote
That's what I was thinking. It sounds like it would be worth the money to book him a motel by the airport. Peace of mind!
beanzilla83 t1_j4ld2pe wrote
I agree. There's more to this than "I don't know them very well". 😅
No-Psychology1751 t1_j4k1h67 wrote
You can‘t leave us hanging like OP. Does he do naughty things to food??
illessen t1_j4k7bzx wrote
Have you ever seen the movie American Pie?
hannahatecats t1_j4m5nbl wrote
Mmmm free icing
DrManhattan_DDM t1_j4mc0zj wrote
Free? Nope, you gotta work for it.
webmarc t1_j4jx4wr wrote
like what habits?
valuethempaths t1_j4l76gf wrote
Twisted ones.
sillylilwabbit t1_j4ladc1 wrote
Does it include warm apple pie ?
LostMyThread t1_j4kvfi9 wrote
If you can't lock up the things he might contaminate, you will need to throw away anything suspect when you get back. Rather than stress and guess, decide whether you're willing to toss what you cannot sanitize. If not, (if doing that will cost more than an airbnb or motel room near the airport), make an excuse and change the plan. I'm sorry your family put you in this position.
You don't owe anyone your peace of mind about your own home.
skymoods t1_j4mc7rp wrote
you don't owe him any favors, 5-6 hours is short enough that he can go to the airport early and rest there. there's zero reason to let him into your home after you know he's done unusual/twisted things. he probably reached out because he knows you are an easy target. please cancel the visit, make up any excuse necessary.
TheReinsofFullnight t1_j4lr9km wrote
Except he’d try to be nice and give you the left over pizza in a ziplock or something and stick it in the fridge.
hannahatecats t1_j4m5khc wrote
I mean, this might be comparable to a hotel if you just add in your peace of mind.
iiCleanup t1_j4m1xws wrote
They gonna open the fridge no matter what you do man
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