CXLV t1_j4jewks wrote
To be honest? A distant family member is no different than a stranger to me. I’d back out of the arrangement. I’d never let someone I don’t know we’ll stay in my apartment under any circumstances. Even if I’m there. You’re under no obligation to do so. Ask the visitor to get a hotel. You can make up any excuse you want.
snakeychat t1_j4jpb3e wrote
What a shitty person, thank god my family is nice
[deleted] OP t1_j4jg7x3 wrote
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CXLV t1_j4ji7i7 wrote
Of course it's still an option. You can ask your brother for the keys back, low-key tell him that you've changed your mind or just lie and say you're going to be there. It is your house.
At the end of the day, it sounds like you're just not comfortable with this. What I'm trying to explain is that this is totally fine. You can be unapologetic about this. You can be polite but firm. It doesn't matter if you already said yes, you can change your mind. If you're this close to an airport, you're also close to hotels that this guy can stay at. Full stop.
If you're worried about someone opening the fridge and just eating food, then yeah there's nothing you can do short of not letting this person stay in your house. Otherwise, lock valuables up (or take them with you).
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