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theanonymoussnowman t1_j1a3dx6 wrote

Reply to comment by -GeneralDerp- in LPT: Don't spy on your SO to try to catch them cheating. If you can't trust them, just break up. by 5YOChemist

Care to elaborate?

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Actually-Yo-Momma t1_j1a5784 wrote

It’s childish. Questioning your trust for your partner is a symptom, not the problem. Identify the root cause of your insecurity and talk to your partner. If you don’t get the reciprocation you’re looking for after having a mature conversation, then consider breaking up

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rifain t1_j1aal8f wrote

Thank you. I couldn’t comprehend how OP’s post is so popular, this is just terrible, terrible advice.

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Tyalou t1_j1abt62 wrote

It is a good advice when you're young and don't want to put the effort in learning what being in a relationship is - at least when you don't want to learn within a single relationship because you basically break up every 6 weeks/months. After a few years, you know what you like, you know who you are and this advice is not relevant.

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hellobeau t1_j1aazcc wrote

Sounds like it’s written from the POV of a list of cheater who doesn’t want to put up with confrontation to me.

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