Submitted by Grass1323 t3_z8fhzx in LifeProTips
Zetavu t1_iych28m wrote
Reply to comment by Red-belliedOrator in LPT: If someone shows you their art, find at least one detail you enjoy: by Grass1323
Actually honesty, done kindly, is the better support. We do not live in a world where you get awards for participation, if someone wants your opinion on something, give them an honest opinion. If they just want praise, then you become part of the problem.
Red-belliedOrator t1_iydkkjb wrote
If someone asks for your honest opinion, and they're looking for a critique, yes, but if you go to your kid's art show at their junior high, you wouldn't walk up unprompted and say Not your best work, son.
Constructive criticism is an art, and there is an appropriate time for it, but there are plenty of people in the world who are very happy to offer their unvarnished opinions, and very few who are going to be a cheerleader for you. People need cheerleaders as much as they need honest opinions. Knowing which is needed in any particular situation, is also an art, but I think that most of the time, finding something nice to say is almost always the better path, simply because so many others are choosing the other one.
vbplayer09 t1_iydrmpg wrote
1000% this. Well said
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