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keepthetips t1_ixu60d0 wrote

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AZymph t1_ixu63bf wrote

Situational. If they have to work it's going to be a very bad time to inform them.

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adventurous_peasant t1_ixu8n25 wrote

I disagree—I want to know as soon as possible especially if I’m within range to see them before rigor mortis begins. I say this bc people waited to tell me once, and it was pretty upsetting.

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aliceswndrland t1_ixu8xsf wrote

Family waited to call us but still posted their goodbyes on Facebook. Yeah... that was a good way to find out gramma died

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iChronocos t1_ixu9125 wrote

I do work that results in me talking about death with people pretty regularly. This is a bad tip. You might refrain from telling small children or people with certain mental needs or illnesses, but people overwhelmingly want this information asap, even when the burden is terrible to bear.

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MellRox013 t1_ixu91ri wrote

Keep in mind they will then be pissed that you didn't tell them when it happened.

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WilliamHarry t1_ixuapjd wrote

I would just call them immediately as if someone waited an entire day to tell me I'd be pissed off.

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shellturtlestein t1_ixubyic wrote

There’s never a good time.

Don’t blame the messenger.

It’s hard to break bad news.

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