Sometimes you do have genuine love for the people that aren’t always healthy for you. Some of my loved ones stress me out to an unhealthy level, which means no holidays together, but I have an amazing long distance relatonship with them and we always support each other.

Your comment seems a little bit more geared towards the idea that if someone is causing you pain then you need to question if you actually love that person or not which is valid but a bit different than your initial comment.