Same..my wife's is the rude aggressive ones mine are the loving caring ones...she just got in a bad argument with them tonight and finally said she's "done trying" well see how long it sticks..

but she always says how much she loves my mom and how she's treated her better than her own and made her feel like family..always says how grateful she is for my mom..and it's really made me appreciate my parent a lot more..

hope everyone has a good holiday out there! Life sucks sometimes but we should at least try to be decent to each other, especially if your family