Cause people like you and op told me all my life i should be the bigger person and forgive my dad for all the abuse he did for my entire childhood cause "he wont be here forever and you'll feel sad someday" but dont give a shit about how shit i was feeling back then and saw his abuse as "though love/trying his best".

Fuck that shit.

Barging into my room and being annoying as shit isnt the way for me to spend time with him.

Respecting boundaries and personnal space is. That would have maybe saved a shred of respect for him.

Thats how a relationship get healthy, not you acting like everything was ok when your dad does a shitty thing, even if its not that bad everytime.

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I wont even begin with the fact that a parent not respecting that kind of boundaries is a red flag for more shit to come.