Bobbycanbackflip t1_itgh8qh wrote
Reply to comment by feetofire in LPT: Watch how people react when they think you’re in a tough spot. People show their true colors when they think you have zero leverage. by [deleted]
I understand where you’re coming from. Personally, I can understand why a married woman’s husband may not be comfortable having you in the home despite your circumstances.
Unfortunately, while yes it deprives you of assistance, they have a more complicated and committed relationship and if you ask me as a guest you have to be respectful of that.
People are allowed to assist you as much as they seem fit.
feetofire t1_itgj7oa wrote
To be clear - both her and her husband were once my friends and we had all known each other whilst working overseas. I’ve stayed with my best friend and her husband (who’s also my friend) without issues elsewhere so - eh - dunno.
Anyway - my way of getting by in life is to pretty much have no expectations from anyone other than myself. Anyone actually pulls for me - is a bonus - I’ve been blessed to have genuinely decent people cross my path, but not by design.
Bobbycanbackflip t1_itgjf34 wrote
Yeah, man I know it’s hard. We all got problems. I find on average we find a way to get by, despite all the adversity.
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