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IronHe t1_iuix4kb wrote

So what you’re saying is to think about math instead of your partner and your partners needs. Got it. I tip my fedora to you my lord.

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fatelectrobooom t1_iuixdn3 wrote

Yea. Much rather would burn my dick from masturbating to get desensitized than do this

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solcroft t1_iuixmye wrote

You're gonna be at a point in the process where lasting as long as possible IS taking care of your partner's needs. That's when you bust out this LPT.

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Important-Aside-507 t1_iuizuji wrote

I don’t think most men have this issue. If you can’t last long enough to please your partner thats a YOU issue. It doesn’t happen often.

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NormalPaYtan t1_iuj07j9 wrote

>If you can’t last long enough to please your partner thats a YOU issue

And this LPT could be the solution - or are men not supposed to solve their problems/issues?

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Important-Aside-507 t1_iuj0ld6 wrote

I never said men didn’t have issues they couldn’t solve. I’m saying this is a deeper issue. If you cannot last long enough to please your partner that you go to counting, which is only going to distract you from pleasing your partner, then maybe you need to find help in a different place, that isn’t doing math.

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NormalPaYtan t1_iuj2g7p wrote

Is there some kind of "straight camp" but for men who can't last in bed?

I can personally go on for a pretty long while if I focus on the "mechanics" of the sex (enough to please my wife), but if I adjust my mindset to focus on my own pleasure I cum in a matter of seconds - and if I didn't know how to jump between those mindsets I don't know what I would do.

Therefore I don't see how counting is in any way WORSE than premature ejaculation. Would you care to elaborate what your solution is?

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Important-Aside-507 t1_iuj4kh5 wrote

Exactly. You don’t distract yourself with math and numbers, you focus on your partner and making them happy. That’s all I mean to say. If I’m with someone who’s so busy trying to just last forever instead of making me happy, I’d be upset. It sounds like the goal is to last as long as possible instead of just make each other happy.

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solcroft t1_iuj38q0 wrote

That's great for you. Statistically, though, men typically last around five minutes in bed, while women typically take around thirteen minutes to climax. Additionally, women can orgasm multiple times in a row, which means that the duration of sex is typically limited by male endurance.

Now, statistically, you could be outperforming the average male, in which case hats off to you. More likely than not, on the other hand, you're either suffering from an inflated perception of your own performance, or your female partners are misleading you about their degree of satisfaction and you can stand to perform better.

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Important-Aside-507 t1_iuj441o wrote

Considering I’m a female neither are correct. I’m just saying that distraction from your partner by math is going to frustrate them. Statistically men don’t last long sure, but in practice I’ve never seen anything less than 20min. Guess I’m just lucky.

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solcroft t1_iuj4r15 wrote

They're going to be distracted while they're busy having a string of huge orgasms themselves?

If your partner notices you're distracted, you're doing it wrong.

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