Bruh, this hit me. Something that's been on the edge of my awareness.

Always afraid to come to this conclusion though because most people don't imagine that you've met yourself significantly more than them.

So they never agree that this is the reality of the matter. So the only way I can tell if this is happening is throuh 3rd parties or my own discernment.

And my own discernment isn't unbiased and it can be sneaky as hell serving what it perceives to be my interest.

So one/I could fall into a thought trap where I dismiss unpleasant realties about myself that are being revealed through others.

Such a fine line. It's truly an art to apply this pro tip.