I don't use a custom DNS. I've never had a need for it, least of all as an ad blocker. I just use a VPN for privacy, but again make sure you trust the VPN because they can track everything if they want to. Any good VPN will have a "no logs" policy so that they can't give your data to others even if they wanted to. I use ExpressVPN, but there are other decent ones out there too.

Regarding ad blocking, it's probably an unpopular opinion, but I think ad blockers are essentially digital theft. It costs money for people to run websites and produce content. "Free" websites aren't actually free; most of them rely on ad revenue to keep the site running and profitable enough to keep making more content. Ad blockers remove some of that revenue. It's like sneaking in the back door to a movie theater without paying for a ticket.

I either pay a subscription fee to get rid of ads, or I just deal with the ads.

You can run your own at home using PiHole or AdGuard. If you wanted to access it from mobile the best would be setting up a VPS but that’s pretty advanced for the average person.