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303elliott t1_isw2mcz wrote

Good tip. I've been to enough funerals to know people want to speak up, but often don't know what to say

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dbsgirl OP t1_isw9yts wrote

Thank you, I hope for your sake you aren't friendly in any manner with the other folks who commented, they feel that you and your grief can fuck on off.

To me it's not just the words, grieving people appreciate someone taking the time to understand who the person was.

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303elliott t1_iswauut wrote

A lot of arm chair psychologists who clearly haven't experienced loss are in your comments. Sorry that your well intended and well spoken tip fell on narcissists.

As Rick Sanchez said, "Your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer."

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dbsgirl OP t1_iswf1z6 wrote

I'm so sad for them, imagine never caring about anyone enough to notice their grief or try to understand it or learn about what they will be missing. Can't wait to hug my extended family asap and make sure they know how much I love them too

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