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Agitated_Ask_2575 t1_jcqc49s wrote

I heard better advice: if it still bothers 24 hours later, say something within 48hrs

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GldnRetriever t1_jcqkqey wrote

This is much, much better. It can sometimes take me a bit of time alone to figure out why something bothered me (and sometimes it's because of my own bs that has nothing to do with the other person)

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AyoAzo t1_jcqlh4n wrote

I'm the same way but even though I don't know why I'm upset I'll still say something akin to "wow, I didn't like that" makes it easier to bring it up again when I realize exactly why it triggered that response.

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