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violinewbie t1_j7x5iad wrote

Hi Ray! With the knowledge and expertise that you have now, is there any advice you would tell your younger self? Or anything you wish you could have done differently?

Appreciate you carving time out for this AMA! Your performances have inspired me very much as an adult beginner on the violin :)

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raychenviolin OP t1_j7xsyj6 wrote

Although people say it's not good to dwell in the past, I like reflecting because I think it's the easiest way to determine personal growth. (ie. Situation in the past that happened, how would I deal with it now?)

Therefore I do have a few things I wish I knew that could have helped make life smoother:

  • Don't make assumptions before you have all the details
  • It's OK to be different because everyone is. Some are just hiding it better than others.
  • Don't be afraid to ask people for help but don't let their help go to waste. Learn and adapt so you can be stronger and more useful.
  • It's better to say "I don't know" than to make up something.
  • Be aware of not only yourself and others around you, but also the impact you make to others through your actions.
  • Goldfish only need to be fed once per day.
  • Buffets are not the answer.
  • Instead of being defensive, learn to throw yourself into the situation to fully understand everyone's perspective.
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sweetsoda13 t1_j7xuv7o wrote

Just a small thing. maybe we should not measure ourselves or others in the perspective of usefulness. I believe it’s a trap that many of us fall into time after time. We are allowed to be happy and enjoy our life🌟

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