Basically what I tell people is that open or poly relationships are for when you've "mastered" 1-on-1 relationships and are ready to start playing on hard mode, lol.

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But what I'm getting that is many times I hear it (similar to having a kid) used trying to save or repair a relationship. That's not going to work and it's usually just going to make it even more challenging.

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But if you guys have a solid relationship and a great and open line of communication, it's not crazy at all. But like any decision in a relationship (money, kids, religion), you just want to make sure you're both doing it for the right reasons. The best way to go about is just as you've said, with open communication and boundaries. Also, you don't need to rush anything. Take a few baby steps and get to know people in the communities, that way you can keep checking in with each other to make sure you're all on the same page.