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Nogy12 t1_j8zoung wrote

Reply to comment by Fuz8ion in [Text] How do you fix your life in your 30s after wasting about 8 years unemployed and living with family by sleeplessbearr

I haven't seen people telling OP (and you in extension, since your inserting yourself as him in your reply) that he is fucked. And he most definitely isn't. They are telling him to not blame others for his past and also to move on from it. And to get on with life in the now.

Nobody is fucked and everybody can start a new life NOW. I got clean after being an addict from my teenage years until age 31. I just celebrated one year of getting clean and turning my life around. I am only just beginning and have way more to accomplish, but life is so good now. I never thought I would ever be a person to enjoy my life.

Anyways I am rambling. All I wanted to say is that you can turn your shit around, and you can live a better life. I hope you can find a better headspace friend and find a life lived with peace of mind

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Eaton2288 t1_j9579f2 wrote

I needed to hear this. I’m still only 23 but feel like OP. I’ve been telling myself that I’ve messed my entire life up and I’m never getting out of this (depression, debt, family problems).

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