peeniebaby t1_j8vp75t wrote
I don’t agree with this one. Many people are naturally pretty cool. Lots of people create themselves and are fucking awful.
ihitrockswithammers t1_j8vykf0 wrote
Some are naturally pretty awful too. Give people the space to change and become a better version of themselves.
Others play an excellent game of appearing cool until their identity feels threatened by someone and their inner awfulness reaches the surface.
The people you meet, cool or not, are not the finished product cause there's no such thing, we're always changing, and it's especially hard to consciously change old ingrained patterns.
We're all shaped by our world into who we are, some get lucky, some not. If not, you can't count on anyone to change you for the better except you.
ClydeDavidson t1_j8wb7pz wrote
This quote honestly sounds like something my conservative uncle would say
Entire_Impression23 t1_j8yuqh2 wrote
Well he didn't say the result would necessarily be good lol.
peeniebaby t1_j90cdgs wrote
this is true
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